9.06.2008

SIMPLIFY LIFE

Since our move in the middle of August, I have been thinking hard about the word simplify, I realized this as I packed and tried to fit everything into
a smaller home. I found myself overwhelmed and stressed too the max, and something had to change...This stuff, that I had kept must go, I must dejunk, declutter and not look back....So bye bye to the "junk" in my life. The new Kim isn't going to be a pack-rat or worry about things she cannot control! SIMPLIFY!

Life isn't usually very simple but we can make it less-difficult, and find more peace by letting-go of excess baggage - both physical and emotional.

I read a neat article that reminded us that we only have control over a small circle of influence; our own. Our lives are large circles of influence over which we really have no control. As we realize that our sphere of control is only over ourselves and our immediate environment, then we can let go of the expectations (and weight) of controlling others', their environments, outward events, varied life experiences etc.

We live in a world where we are exposed to many things because of other people's choices. Some of the challenges and trials of life are because of the consequences of other people's choices over which we have NO control but which affect us. As we accept this fact we are able to worry less, and trust in God more. WE can't change other people, but we can change ourselves and the way we look at things and the Lord can help THEM to change.

The ability to simplify life comes from the recognition that we deal with our small circle of issues and not the whole large circle of everyone else's choices. We turn to the Lord for help in healing ourselves and our expectations and we trust that He knows us, loves us, cares for us, and will help us. We recognize, too, that he loves others and desires to help them as they turn to Him.

5 comments:

Carrie and Troy Keiser said...

Very good post, thanks for sharing.

Mel said...

What a great reminder! I so need to simplify not only the material things in my life but how I spend my time and my thoughts. Thanks so much for sharing that! Good luck on simplifying!

Sassy said...

AMEN to that...now if I could actually do the throwin' out...I keep saying I am going to do this and then I have such a hard time letting go...I think I'm sick in the head....

I AM SO SICK OF CRAP!!!! It is high time to get a grip I think...thanks for the motivation...

Dena said...

I loved your post.

Tawni said...

That was soo good to read too!
Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us!
I hope you are doing well Kim!